once upon a time
Sunday, July 28, 2013
" Once upon a time, she left me.
She left me sick.
I swear to be strong.
I get up.
But deep in my heart I died a little inside. "
Caring for The Seasons
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly, so he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no, it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.
He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, and the fulfillment of your fall. This is to remind us not to let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to follow.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no, it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.
He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, and the fulfillment of your fall. This is to remind us not to let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to follow.
that's what we tend to do in most of the times
only sometimes we don't realise it
sad but true
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Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Kalau kau putus asa pun hidup ini tetap berjalan.
Masa tetap berjalan.
Pekerja tetap pergi kerja. Budak-budak tetap pergi sekolah.
Yang patut mati tetap mati.
Bayi tetap lahir.
Kau tetap celik dari tidur.
Tak ada yang berhenti kalau kau berhenti.
Nak tak nak kau kena sabar, kena percaya, sebab itu saja yang kau ada, itu saja yang dapat mengubah benda.
Sabar!!!
tamat diploma
Friday, May 10, 2013
Assalamualaikum kepada semua pembaca :)
Alhamdulillah, syukur kehadrat ilahi kerana akhirnya, aku telah berjaya menamatkan pengajian dalam program diploma kejuruteraan kimia di UiTM.
Aku juga bersyukur, sepanjang pengajian aku, aku sering mendapat keputusan yang cemerlang setiap semester dan melayakkan aku untuk mendapat ANC (VICE CHANCELLOR AWARD), berkat usaha bersama rakan-rakan serta doa kedua ibubapa aku dan rezeki yang diberikan olehNya.
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| Happiness when shared, is doubled :D |
Aku ingin mengucapkan jutaan terima kasih kepada semua yang telah membantu aku menamatkan pengajian aku ini, kepada ibubapa ku, terima kasih di atas doa dan dorongan dan banyak lagi perkara yang tidak akan pernah dapat ku balas, terima kasih untuk semua! kepada pensyarah pensyarah, terima kasih di atas ilmu ilmu yang telah diberikan, kepada kawan kawan, terima kasih kerana sentiasa ada untuk aku!
Kepada si jantung hati, Siti Sarah binti Azmi, thank you for coming into my life and giving me joy, for the memories, for everything !
am currently missing you so much, can't wait for us to meet again in Shah Alam, in sha Allah.
am currently missing you so much, can't wait for us to meet again in Shah Alam, in sha Allah.
Itu je untuk post kali ini, until next time,
Assalamualaikum.
Assalamualaikum.
Burnt toast
Friday, February 8, 2013
Burnt toast
“When I was a little Boy, I remember one day in particular when my mum had made breakfast. She must have been very tired. My mum placed a plate of eggs, and rather burned toast in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed. Yet all my dad did was reach for his toast, smile at my mom, and ask me was I ready for school. I don’t remember what I replied, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jam on that toast and eat every bite!
When I got up from the table, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the toast. And I’ll never forget what he said: ‘Baby, I love burned toast.’
Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy and I asked him if he really liked his toast burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, ‘Your Momma works hard day after day and she’s real tired. And besides a little burnt toast never hurt anyone!’ You know, life is full of imperfect things…..and imperfect people. I’m not the best football player either.
What I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each other’s faults – and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences – is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.
We should learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the infront of Allah. Because in the end, He’s the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where burnt toast isn’t a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact – as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent-child or friendship!!”
“The faithful husband should not hate his faithful wife, because if he hates a certain manner in her character, then he should not forget the other good manners in her character.”
A father's advice
Following is a letter by a Father to his son from a renowned Hong Kong
TV broadcaster/Child Psychologist. The words are actually applicable
to all of us, young or old, Children or parents.! This applies to
daughters too. All parents can use this in their teachings to their
children.
Dear son ,
I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons
1.Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable; nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early.
2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.
3. What is written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches.
Remember the following as you go through life:
1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I.
To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really likes you. You have to be careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.
2. No one is indispensable, nothing in the world that you must
possess. Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore, or when you lose what/who you love most.
3.Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.
4.Love is but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
5.A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life. One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags!
6.I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.
7.You honor your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.
8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but I never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.
With Love,
Your Dad...